Partner with the Angel of Peace to Heal Self-Judgement

 (If you prefer listening you'll find this topic on my podcast too!)

One day years ago I was doing some shopping at an outdoor mall, and as I walked from one store to another, I noticed something different in the other shoppers. It was as if everyone was off balance in some way.

I was feeling the same way, so as I walked, I silently asked for a Guardian to help us all.

Immediately I felt the presence of a Guardian energy I’d never felt before. 

The feeling was so powerful that I felt I had to stop what I was doing and walk back to my car.

Once there, I sat down in the passenger seat, closed my eyes, and opened my heart to the new Guardian energy that was suddenly all around me.

It was rich, deep-pink Angelic energy that made me feel like I was inside a beautiful, loving womb, able to absorb everything I needed in order to heal and evolve.

It felt like being enveloped in a great Angel of Peace, and I knew in my heart that this Guardian was here for all of us.

If you’re in a safe place, you can connect with this Angel right now.

Take a deep breath and slowly let it out. 

As you relax, allow yourself to welcome a sense of comfort in your body. Surround yourself with this feeling of comfort; breathe it in and feel yourself filled with deep comfort.

Now focus your attention on the energy of your heart, and create a new space in your heart for self-acceptance. 

See this as an actual place you are creating—a temple of self-acceptance within your heart.

Feel the Angel of Peace filling this place in your heart with deep, rich, pink energy, and dedicate this space to self-acceptance. 

Set an intention to allow into this space everything about yourself that you’ve been rejecting. 

Allow these things to enter your heart one by one, and as they do, let them be transformed by the power of love.

Do this now. Let a part of yourself you’ve been rejecting come to mind. 

Now bring this part of yourself into the temple of self acceptance you have created in your heart. 

Let it be held in this nurturing pink energy. How does it feel?

From now on, set an intention to become aware whenever you’re rejecting a part of yourself. 

Bring the thing you are about to reject into this energy of love within your heart, and feel yourself becoming more whole. 

Know that your truth—the truth of being a force of powerful love, just as you are—is activating every part of your being now. 

Feel it alive within you, and feel the transforming power of love spread out

to every part of your life.

It’s important to remember that the self-love we’re talking about isn’t conditional. You have it all day long, no matter what happens.

I had a breakthrough on this subject about years ago. 

For years I played around with the idea of becoming a wedding officiant, but I never took action on it.

Then two of my clients asked me if I would marry them.

Even though I’d taught and spoken in front of crowds many times, I’d never performed this kind of ceremony before. 

This was a truly profound and sacred thing, and I was so nervous about doing it!

I put a ton of effort into creating a really beautiful ceremony, and I practiced and I practiced. . . but a few days before the ceremony, I was hit with a wave of overwhelming stage fright.

When I sat with the feeling of fear, it came to me that what I needed to do was to tell myself that even if I totally screwed up the ceremony, I wouldn’t abandon myself.

No matter what, I would still love myself.

And that made all the difference. 

I actually didn’t screw up (yay!) but the value in the story is not the outcome, but the shift that took place within me.

Promising not to abandon myself changed everything, and it made me aware of how often we abandon ourselves based on our performance. 

(No wonder we’re scared to show up in the world!)

So begin telling yourself that you won’t abandon yourself if you do poorly or if you screw up or if you embarrass yourself. 

Tell yourself that no matter what happens, you won’t reject yourself—and really mean it!

This is no less than you would expect from a partner or a friend.

It’s actually what you would expect from someone who loves you, so start, right now, to give it to yourself.

We don’t need to earn our own respect; we just need to not reject ourselves.

And you can call on the angel of peace, and return to the temple of self-acceptance within your heart whenever you need to.

And if you want more help connecting to the angelic energies all around you, you can get my book and a free bonus at guardian gateway.com